A Hiatus

What a wonderful word that is. Without doing a deep dive, I’m confident I’ve never used this word in any of my books. What a pity since I do like this word. For those who like definitions. The definitions I’ve found of the word include: a pause or gap in a sequence, series, or process;… Read More A Hiatus

Be Careful What You Ask For…Part II

So…all over the news, states are lamenting the fact that they now have a serious teacher shortage. Why? Because the fringe right has been calling teachers “groomers”. Then there are the mean-spirited report of teachers offering kids banned books, supporting LGBTQ+ teens, or allegations that CRT is being taught in their classroom. They’ve declared war… Read More Be Careful What You Ask For…Part II


So…I’ve been on a sex roll lately and last week I included Foot Sex in my list of 101 Types of Sex. This one definitely caught my interest. Thus I felt like it deserved its own blog. The first question I had: can a person actually have an orgasm with just a foot rub? And… Read More Footgasm


You might think that I’m going to talk about the Supreme Court’s decision to overturn Roe V. Wade today and make no mistake that is a big Ouch, but not what I can talk about just yet. It’s way too raw for me after the other decision on gun rights. All I can say is… Read More Ouch


Every day I go to my news app and scan the articles and sometimes I come across gems that lead to a new topic for my Friday blogs. Normally, Cosmopolitan has great articles about sexual health, but this past week Buzzfeed ran an article about a twenty-eight-year-old woman who realized she’d never had a full… Read More Mini-gasms…

Gender Identity

Before my meeting last week with an insurance trust that I am a board member, I thought I was relatively knowledgeable about gender identity. Boy was I wrong. The consultants were discussing how insurance underwriting was more challenging these days, especially in California where one group they worked with had nine different genders that individuals… Read More Gender Identity

Pump It Up

So, last week I wrote about this relatively new craze where women are looking for ways to grow their clit. One of those ways was a clit pump. Admittedly, I knew absolutely nothing about either the movement to grow one’s clit or clit pumps, but as with many topics related to human sexuality, this definitely… Read More Pump It Up