Unexpected Turn Ons
I came across this article that listed fifteen things that turn people on, and joy of all joys, it’s not all about looks or bedroom behavior. … Read More Unexpected Turn Ons
Category: Relationships
Togetherness
This past week I was doing my daily scroll through Facebook looking for humorous posts and came across this picture of a wide rectangular toilet built for two. Unfortunately, as happens sometimes, when I went back to try to find the post, I couldn’t find it. I wanted to see if it was real because… Read More Togetherness
The Rear View Window and the Windshield
A common trope in romance centers around how a person’s past affects future relationships. It’s often used as a way to explain a person’s hesitancy to get involved with someone new. Sometimes it’s a bad break up in the past. Sometimes it is a deceased partner they simply cannot get over. Sometimes there is real… Read More The Rear View Window and the Windshield
Cancer Sucks…Part II
I vaguely recall writing about this before because cancer is that terrible disease that has affected far too many people in my life. The helpless feeling I have when cancer takes a person well before their time is something that I can’t ever put into words. This powerless feeling sucks. Another angel lost their life… Read More Cancer Sucks…Part II
Language of Love
Every eight weeks, my wife and I travel to Seattle so I can get my hair cut and while we are there, we treat ourselves to a wonderful lunch with our friend at Duke’s Seafood and Chowder House. We’ve been meeting our friend for lunch for almost a year. Like clockwork. We always have wonderful… Read More Language of Love
Obsession…
I have a dirty little secret. No, it’s not that I have obsessive compulsive disorder (mild case…not like my mother) because that is well known. Although, my wife disagrees with the mild part. She thinks it’s a bit more pronounced! My obsessiveness has taken me to a place I never thought I would go. In… Read More Obsession…
A Bad Breakup
It’s hard for me not to think of Trump’s temper tantrums and bad behavior as similar to a horrible breakup, with a psychopathic edge. We all know those people who react in the extreme when we’ve kicked them to the curb, and now the United States is getting a front seat view. Our worst nightmare… Read More A Bad Breakup
The Charity Season…
This past week Giving Tuesday came and went without a lot of fanfare, even though the need is great all over the world. The pandemic created an unprecedented number of people in the US who don’t have money to stay in their homes or feed their families. To add insult to injury, the pandemic causes… Read More The Charity Season…
Here We Go Again…
For my own sanity, I chose to receive the news that the Pope is advocating for civil unions for same sex couples as a positive sign. That is not to say I don’t recognize how civil unions are different from marriage. Many states tried to play that game and we all lost until the landmark… Read More Here We Go Again…
Unhealthy Relationships
This past week I had an epiphany…I am one of those. Despite my protestations that I would never remain in an unhealthy, abusive, co-dependent, relationship, I find myself willingly forgiving my demon spawn, Nico. Sure, he isn’t a partner or spouse…remember I’m a lesbian. Nico is my beloved black cat. Many of you may already… Read More Unhealthy Relationships
